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During my run the other day, a song came onto my Pandora station, Let’s Marvin Gaye and Get it On.
They told me that lately, they’ve noticed a noticeable shift in how men communicate in the realm of online dating.
Messages go from PG rated interactions with some gentle flirting, mild banter and minimal sexual undertones to men coming outright with inappropriate requests off the bat.
They’ve shared tales of men who request to skip dinner (not so bad) pass on the drink (getting worse) and jump right into bed (unacceptable). Gaye, these men are looking for something that falls more into the ‘Wham Bam Thank You Ma’am’ category and less of the ‘Sweet Romance’ variety.
It makes me wonder why there are any sites out there where this behavior is condoned.
Why are there men out there who think that skipping any notion of romance and heading in a straight shot to sexy-time is an acceptable way to behave?
Here’s a couple of my guesses about how the culture got here: 1 Users can hide behind a screen. It can expose you (no pun intended) to a breadth of people you might not otherwise come into contact with.
HOWEVER, there’s also an element of it that removes the notion of humanity—if you let it. If you remove the emotional element from the equation, what you’re left with is transactional sex. I’m sure there’s a whole slew of other reasons for this recent breach in propriety but these three seem to be as good an explanation as any.
It’s a lot easier to be gross to a complete stranger through a screen than it is to a real life person. For every ten d**k pics that receive a ‘You’re gross’ response, one of those pics gets an encouraging ‘Oooh send more’. That can be a heck of a lot easier than the former option and truth is, leaves no room for complication or feelings getting hurt. Regardless of whether they’ve gotten permission or are too darn scared to come out from behind the screen, I for one won’t have it.
These guys are just looking for the right audience and I’m sure that some women out there are thrilled to have this sort of fling. I feel empowered knowing that there are sites out there that allow me to online date in a safe space.
So if sex is the dish du jour, someone will eventually be interested in having a taste. By now, I’m sure you’ve heard about the latest debacle involving a certain dating site that advocates extramarital affairs. One where I feel protected and where people I won’t vibe with are already removed from the mix.
Sites like this make people think that this is standard operating procedure across all dating sites. And until all of my girlfriends wise up and get off those other sites, I’ll keep preaching that they need to teach these naughty boys a lesson in good behavior.
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